Hey guys I’m Vicky Murgatroyd from Life Empowerment Project, and welcome to this week’s blog.
This week I want to get down into some core issues. We’re learning more and more about the power we have internally to create massive shifts in our external world. I want to share something with you guys that has been brought up to me a few times recently, so I thought it would be really beneficial to share with you guys: the reasons why your manifesting isn’t working.
So, as I say, we are getting super keyed into the fact that we have massive power when it comes to determining what we can create with our lives. That’s hugely exciting.
There are some people who follow all the steps of these manifestation methods, and they get to the end of it and haven’t got the result. Whereas there are other people who follow the same method and create huge results – I’m talking huge amounts of money, huge shifts in their life, and huge impact on the world…etc! So what’s the difference?
As I say, this is hugely beneficial to understand because it’s such a prevalent thing – in women and in particular female entrepreneurs.
Let’s back it up a little and cover off firstly on exactly what manifestation is.
I want you to start thinking of yourself as a magnet. Whatever you’re thinking and feeling is what you’re going to attract to you – it’s what you’ll create in our life.
Whatever’s at the forefront of your mind is what you’re going to create. The fact is, most of us are so caught up in thinking about what we don’t want, that that’s exactly what we create! Ever notice how the most negative people continually attract more and more negativity, and the most positive people just keep attracting more positive things and seemingly shake off negativity effortlessly?
So manifestation: whatever is occupying the forefront of your mind, is what you’re going to attract to you.
As we start to act in a way that we are grateful and start to FEEL and THINK as if we’ve got the things we want already, then that’s what you start to attract. Again, it’s your thoughts and feelings that you’re holding internally, that manifest things externally in your life.
If I’m constantly thinking that I’ve got no money and all I’m thinking about is all these bills, bills, bills, then that’s what I’m going to create more of. However, if I live in an abundant world – where my mindset is completely abundant and focused on all the abundance around me, then that is what I’ll create. More abundance – and that abundance will be limitless.
So let’s get down to the magic. Why do some people follow the same manifesting rituals but produce no results?
This is key across the board: it’s your self-worth.
I know a lot about this – it’s the exact space that I came from, and I get to work with a lot of women who start off in this space as well. Luckily, we can move you way beyond it very easily and quickly.
We tell ourselves a certain story. This is who I think I am. I think I’m shy, I think I’m unworthy, or a fundamentally bad person, or I think I am angry, etc. We have this story we tell ourselves of who we think we are. But quantum physics tells us that whatever we think we are, we are always massively more than that. There’s no way we can pin down exactly what we are. We have no idea how our consciousness inhabits this lump of flesh. What you are is magic, and there’s no amount of negative self-talk that could undo that – but what it does do, is put a veil over your true worth.
So how do you build that self-wroth back up? One trick I utilise myself, and I get all my clients to do as well, is to first of all tune in to your beliefs about yourself. A lot of the time our beliefs reside at such an unconscious level that we don’t even know what’s preventing us. But when you bring it to your conscious awareness, it loses so much power and you get your power back to change it.
The fact is, when we learn ‘stupid’ or ‘worthless’ or whatever it is, we learn it at a very young age, and we just replicate that behaviour without any thought into whether the behaviour is serving us or even if it rings true anymore – and without evne the awareness that we’re carrying out the behaviour!
First of all, let’s get that conscious awareness going of what those thoughts are about ourselves that tell us we’re not worth it – that we’re not worth being a millionaire, or being happy, or having everything in our life work in our favour.
When we believe that we’re not worth those things, then we’ll keep sabotaging our success, and no amount of working on manifesting those things will ever bring it to fruition if we don’t believe we’re worth it. We simply don’t allow it to happen.
When you truly connect with who you really are – and it might take a bit of undoing to get through those layers of old programming, but let me tell you it is SO worth it.
To really tune in to your worth at the deepest level, it just takes some introspection. All the answers of how amazing you are reside within you. It’s just a case of getting rid of those old blindfolds and old veils that used to have you thinking in that old way and stopped you getting results.
When we shed those old beliefs that you’re shy, for instance, then you start to get down into the core of who you really are. Journaling can be a great way to start shifting those layers and getting down into you really are – and it’s all about allowing yourself to be open to it.
How many times were you told as a child ‘don’t blow your own trumpet’ ‘don’t be big headed’ or ‘don’t be arrogant’ – but it’s not arrogant to accept who you are and the natural greatness that you and everyone else has within them.
The minute you’re in that space of knowing who you are and what you bring to the world, and what you have to offer, you can live from that space, of connection to your greatness, you can inspire other people to do the same. That’s our vehicle of huge change.
One of my favourite quotes is by Marianne Williamson – ‘there is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you.’
By stepping out of your own way, you can facilitate massive change in yourself and in the world as well, and it only takes you recognising your worth. As soon as you’re connected with your true worth, you connect with the fact that truly deserve happiness, abundance, success, fulfilment, and everything else that goes with it…then manifestation will work.
All those things, when you’re bringing your focus back into what you want and allowing your feelings to align with that, living in that space of complete and utter satisfaction and gratitude every single day, you’ll manifest whatever you want. But until you get that worth…it’s a pointless game.
I hope you’ve got heaps of value out of today. I know we’ve gone deep, and we’ve gone a little broader than I intended, but I really want you guys to grab a hold of this message and live from that space. Because you living from that space will facilitate so many others doing the same. If you’ve got kids, they’ll learn from you how to live in this space. If you’ve got employees, they’ll learn from you how to live in this space. This has a huge ripple effect, and YOU are the next epicentre. But until you learn your true worth, you won’t have that power to change it. You innately have that power within you, it’s just a matter of getting connected to it.
If you need any help making this happen, get on a call with us! Apply for one of our strategy sessions, we’ll get in touch and create a space where you can create huge progression. I am more than happy to offer you that free session where we nut down into exactly what it’s going to take for you to finally recognise your worth and completely skyrocket your progress.
As always guys it’s been an absolute pleasure and I can’t wait to see you on next week’s blog.
Keep being extraordinary, keep living inspired.
